Little,

Laughter is primary, a release, just as valid as tears. Your feelings are your feelings, laughter tears, anger, contempt and just sheer naughtiness.

You are allowed your feelings, to own them, to state you have them and how it affects you. Belly laugh away, if that's authentic for you, them it's valid. We do have thread parties here too, with fun, i personally like Liam, cheese, Mooooose (I am saving that!) and vino, it's a preference. I absolutely Internet guarantee you that if anyone is offended that's their issue, not yours. You laugh away and make your sides hurt with it and then post it, we will laugh with you.

I am glad being here joining in is releasing for you, in due course you will no longer be the newbie and will post to others and support them (I am sure of it) and that too develops our inner selves. this is a journey and we might as well take it willingly.

Nick is yours, it's a deal.

Cake eating comes from the expression you can't have your cake and eat it too. It's popular way of describing when a WS wants to have an OP and an S so by pulling away his cake your WH has only one source of cake, if he wants another he cheats on OW. Negative consequences.

At some stage can we discuss this control issue, it troubles me. I am glad about the L advice.

Peace tonight

V


Last edited by Vanilla; 07/29/15 06:46 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW