I'm not a vet and yes, I did it all wrong in the beginning. You have some excellent help here and in the early days when you find this site you dot want to listen to them. You want to save your M. Trust me, from my own personal experience. Listen to the experts. Your plan will not work. Do what these great people are telling you. I know it doesn't sit well with you. It didn't sit well with me either but when I applied the advice they gave I felt better. Is my M recoverable? Not sure but right now that's not the focus. Strange to say that but the reality is your old M is dead. Focusing on you is the important bit here. Yes, you feel hurt, rejected and a whole plethora of other negative emotions. Sort that out first. The vets will talk you through the rest. You are receiving excellent advice. Apply it.
Good luck.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
