T-boned so sorry you have to deal with more fall out. I am fortunate that H lives cross country and is NC with me and our children. It used to upset me but it sure makes my life easier day to day. I mean they could tell people they're married for all I know. As longest the support is deposited I am invisible.

It is sad but sounds like you are that beautiful Phoenix. Stay strong and know many people keep you in pray and are cheering you on. You deserve all the best in life. Let XH build a life on sand and lies. It will never stand strong.

Thanks for posting. Stay on the best path for you.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou