Why would you want to IGNORE golden advice from wise vets who have trod the path before you and divorce busted their M's??!
If you persist in willfully ignoring advice here and doing it YOUR way, then be forewarned that you are doing it at your OWN peril...and the M will implode faster than any old ratty building.
Your choice.
I can feel the vapors of your desperation emitting from this computer screen and I am feeling extremely SUFFOCATED...even though I am not your wife!
Lose that fear and really START applying the DB principles for real.
Quit saying, "but..."
The guidelines are there for a reason because they actually WORK. Not some willy nilly rules that one makes up off the cuff in the Lord of the Flies jungle.
And you would be well advised to read up Cali's threads as your homework assignment. He's over in the MLC forum.
