I am sorry to hear this ... but honestly the writing was there right?
Does this change things for you? Read jobs post again ... that's the attitude and approach you are going to need right now. One from strength and fortitude. Your W will spew and throw tantrums but do not allow her to walk all over you anylonger. She has had this all set up before BD .... and so far you have played along just as she predicted .... time to actually 180 this and become a better man.
You might be feeling pretty low and hopeless, I am here to tell you if you start the work it will pay off regardless of what your W does. I did it .... turns out my W did a 180 of her own ... I would not bank on that nor did I .. .I became a better man for all this .. and this forum had a HUGE role in that transformation
You have 2 choices ... continue about things the way you have .... or decide today is the day you will start living YOUR life.
