H, I agree, there must be a book! I can't believe the OW had the nerve to show up at your house! At this point I'd love to have two seconds w/my H's OW. I'm not sure how much more of this I can take or how much I should take. I was nice and happy when he stopped to drop off the kids this morning, even gave him a cup of coffee. But I had a lousy day, I know he will be with her all week, and I guess I'm an impatient person. I would like to see signs now, it's been so long and obviously being intimate isn't the sign I thought it was! I wouldn't worry about the damage you may have done because I think this one might just come back to bite her in the backside. Take Care, s