I do need to change the tone in therapy. It's been the W show for far too long in there.
If she pulls it in a joint therapy session, I'd just stand up, make a little speech, and leave. "You know what? This isn't working for me anymore. I must be nuts to spend my time and money -- both of which are precious to me at this point -- to sit here and be treated so disrespectfully. (Looking at wife) And your sense of entitlement and complete lack of introspection is no longer my concern. I'll let you guys work on whatever you want to, but I'm going to go."