BnB, Thank you, your not making me feel worse at least I know I'm not alone. I'm not really sure how long I should continue this, sometimes I think pushing for him to get the D will wake him up. My H says the same stuff to me about his OW ..he doesn't want to hurt her but like I said Friday he knew what he needed to do and I think he still does he just can't right now, but the question still remains..When and can I hang in there that long? S
