You know, Jim, I can honestly say ditto what Toots, Vanilla and rd said before me, because they are far more wise than I. wink

Let me say, from my experience, this whole thing is tough. Unlike you, I didn't have young children in the mix and I struggled every single day to stay positive. I would sit at my desk at work and cry. Or I would cry all the way to work or all the way home or many more days than I care to admit, both.

There is no denying that it is probably one of the single toughest things a person ever has to deal with and adding young children to the mix, I can only imagine, makes it even tougher.

You are doing well. You are working on yourself and you have a GREAT attitude from where I'm sitting. One little blunder on your part is not the end of the world...it just means you are human.

Many prayers, hugs and much support coming at you from me and the Molly dog. smile


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids