Just offering some advice to newbies. I'm no expert, but after 18 long, long weeks, I think I can spot a few things that I/We've been through and try and throw a bone their way before they wade in with a mistake.
I'll check out Ghost's thread.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
