IMHO if the girls are adults and in their 20's then you must let them and their mother "DEAL" with their own relationships.
It sounds like they already know the score.
Quote from 2/10/2007
Originally Posted By: OK now
I had a talk with olest D tonight. Seem's she had a convo. with her mother a couple weeks ago where she asked her why she really left. Mom told her that she fell out of love with all three of us and felt that we were holding her back from being really happy and following her dream. This crushed D in a way that she hung up on her and vowed never to talk with her again.
I didn't know what to say. This is something you never hear a mother tell her daughter. And it conferms to me big time that she is plain sick!!
I told D that I was so sorry she had to hear that, Mom is not in her right mind right now otherwise she would have never said that. That no mother would ever have any of those feelings. And she should not take it personal, Mom isn't mom right now, and I explained all about MLC. She's 17 and I think she understands.
So nothing has changed in 8 1/2 years!
My kids are a little older and one "gets" it and the other one is still struggling to accept.
All I can do is keep being the BEST DAD that I can be,
