Thanks Sandi. My friend did have a wayward spouse many years ago. And I was looking for a womens perspective. She basically said don't let her think you are waiting around for her but every now and then let her know you care. Maybe just a note reminding her of a good memory. Well I got burned yesterday when radiator hose on car burst. She was with me at hospital and d27 said she seemed concerned. Hopefully this will make her think
