Thanks Cadet for the advice. I read your lighthouse post and hit home.
I pick her and my girls up at the airport next Wed.
I wanted to get my two girls a bouquet a flowers, and obviously not one for my wife. Is this an ok thing to do, or will it seem to her that I'm trying to hurt her?
I've also talked to my leadership here and will be working half days this week. I'll be moving all of her clothes and and belongings into the spare bedroom before she returns.