Do you want a D? I know I don't and at this specific moment W is not pushing it, though she moved out two weeks ago and said she is not coming back.
But here is my perspective and you will get amazing support and help from EVERYONE here; they have saved my life. We will tell you straight what we think; so do not get easily offended, everyone wants to help.
NO talk of R, D, or OW and NO mention of D deadline. If he says he wants a D, you say. "I do not agree with this and I do not want this, but if this is what you want."
And READY? No being intimate until he quits OW; he's playing both sides of the track.
Continue to be positive and upbeat and act "as if" you are going on with your life. If he wants to be part of it, he has to decide. And you have to do what is BEST for you.
Hang in
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Stop by Piecing, lots of good insight there. I'm under "Broken Pieces II" if you get a chance to stop by.
