What qualities. I was funny (still am but that bothers her now) She felt she could be herself around me. She has her single girlfriends to hang out with now. So I feel she doesn't need me now. I never belittled her like her ex did. Never have. I have been quite proud of all her accomplishments and have told her so. We used to go to the gym together. And that was fun. But she is a Triathlete, which means lots of running, biking, swimming. Stuff I can't keep up at. I sometimes would bike with her while she ran. But her girlfriends do all that stuff. (So, yeah little jealous of things) One time I ran with her she was running her friends dog, and she and her took off at breakneck speed. Leaving me in the dust. So I had to walk by myself for an hour. Didn't make me feel very good. She later apologized, but at the same time, she could have turned back.