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[little1]

Todays has been really bad for me. Every little thing is making me want to cry.

contact with H is down and has been since beginning of the month. We talked a little bit tonight about his work but nothing major. AND THEN, he texts me with "enjoy your weekend doing whatever or whoever" I told him to have a good weekend also and I got sure. When he says sure, it means something is not right. I made the mistake of asking if he was ok and if he needed an ear to listen I had 2 no pressure no expectations. And he was not happy. I know I should not have said that and i did apologize.

He is stuck on I am sleeping with someone but he doesn't know who it is. This usually happens when he drives by the house and sees a strange vehicle in the yard. Hello look at the ages of our DD's. But no. Usually when he makes those comments I just ignore them. It is not a fight worth having. I tried once and he didn't believe me so I just don't. I know the truth and that is all that matters. I have told him several times that my personal life is off-limits to him. I feel he left me for OW, it is none of his business if I am seeing someone or not. and one the same note every once in a while i get this: You need to go out. get out of the house. But if I do, I am told I need to be at home with the children not out running around. He knows that its off limits because every once in a while he will acknowledge that fact.
How do I handle this situation? I honestly haven't just kind of ignored it, but he has brought it up several dozen times this month which is out of character.

Not to mention, I think I have turned back into the enemy again. Everything I say is wrong or overstepping my bounds or upsetting him somehow. And oh my goodness, if I don't talk to him when he talks to me that will set him off. Then he starts quizzing our DD's about why I won't talk to him. I am almost to a point of shutting him off completely and letting him stew in HIS MESS for a bit. Its Not ok for me to go out and have fun with adults, but it is ok for me to go sleep with other people.

Last time he was like this, all was not well in happyville and after about a month or so, he told me about it.