I am in the midst of working on my detaching and letting go and have remembered that my wife has mentioned to me that she has been detaching for a while and in that, her therapist may have her doing the separation and letting go of me to become a better her. She has been being selfish only thinking of herself and how she needs to find herself and voice again.
I had texted her to tell and kiss my boys good night for me and that I loved them and she replied "I will and they love you too".
I may be reading too much into it, but she isn't saying and hasn't been saying "I love you" to me for a while now as well.
I'm afraid that she may be countering my detaching.
