Yeah Cali, you're right. It's instinctive for me to want to offer to help. It's what I've always done. Hard to just STFU, as usual. But it's all good now. Back to detachment today... no contact until she initiates it. And I don't have an iPad. It's just a very strange situation. With the no contact, it won't matter for a while anyway.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19