It's over everyone. Wife told me she filed for divorce. There is no way she is changing her mind. It's over.
I'm really drained and tired. Going to try and get some sleep. I will give details in the morning.
She expects the kids to live with her fulltime and the things she said she would do if I fought her on it were despicable.
I will go into details in the morning. I feel numb.
BE,
Listen here....we have had many WASes declare their intention to file for a D and then it gets postponed for various reasons. Some even call off D. Don't take W's words at a face value and feel like it's the end of the world.
Yeah, I get it that you feel sucker punched and feel it's the end of the road. Guess what? It isn't. Let's take Cali's sitch...18 months long with a bunch of fits and starts on D paperwork. Talk about lots of ups and downs.
You need to focus on the big picture and focus on what your bottom line here. As a father you would want to ensure that you have 50-50 custody and a reasonable financial settlement. Don't lie down and let W steamroll over you with threats etc.
