Sorry you're having a tough day. Have you read about mid life crisis at all? It could well be a factor, given your H's age and the circumstances you describe.
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Legal separation is underway and he's moving out. I am completely devastated.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Keep breathing Becky. It's hell, but you'll get through it. People say here a lot, it's one day in a long life. There have been other worst days that you survived and you'll survive this one too.
We're here for you, keep posting about how you feel and reach out to a friend if you can. You need support right now. This is all happening but how YOU come through it is all that matters now.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
Just curious PigPen, are you still trying to save your marriage or just move on with your life?
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Sorry just saw your reply. Yes I believe MLC is a factor, along with depression and a really hellish three years physically and emotionally for my husband.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
I have filed for legal separation and H is moving out. My H loves our cat and she loves him. I keeping her but I feel really bad for Bailey (the cat) and for H having to leave her. I know how H feels is not supposed to be my concern anymore. Would it be weird/wrong to suggest shared custody? Probably not the best for a cat.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
IMO when you H chose to become wayward he chose to leave you AND cat behind. I would not suggest shared custody.
Definitely not best for the cat, but also seems like you are perhaps reaching for a reason to guarantee you'd have continued contact with H moving forward?
Me:36 W:30 M:2.75 T:7 BD: 4/2015 ILYBNILWY: 5/2015 W Moved Out: 5/2015 W filed for D: 7/2015
I don't think moving on and saving my marriage are mutually exclusive but I don't want to have false hope only to be more disappointed. My husband is in the process of moving out at my request. Truly moving on would be selling the house etc. Won't this signal to him that I am done?
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
