MLC Divorce and Cancer Continued

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Hi vge1. I just want to say hello to you and mention that I too have battled cancer and my spouse. I am always amazed when I read the posts here how similar all of these stories are. Amazingly my wife has behaved most poorly about settling the financial part of our lives. One would think that my wife and your husband just being able to leave a situation that was so horrible to them would make them blissful. I have been blessed with a degree of peace by letting go of the financial situation and have accepted that if I lose the house that I raised S13 and my S's23 and 25 in that I will find a home somewhere. God has always provided my basic needs to me and it may be that he knows something that I don't about where I should live. I hope that you are healing from the cancer and pray that you will be able to focus on your recovery. This battle takes incredible emotional strength and facing a wayward spouse at this time is too much. Those stories in the Bible are to show us that there has always been suffering in this world and people will do horrible things. We must trust that God will always reveal a blessing in spite of the sorrow that we go through. God bless you and be healed emotionally as well as physically. Love your children and turn your thoughts away from your husband and toward them. Peace!