Updates: 1) Still fighting the fight ...cancer that is. To God be the glory, the chemo still working. I'm off this week. Yay! Three more I.V. treatments left then we'll see what happens then. I'm looking for a job so that I can get benefits because COBRA will be too expensive and may prevent me from getting money for sustaining my household. Looking at other insurance/healthcare alternatives that do cover my treatment and that my doctor takes and is low cost. Praying!
2) H is still an alien...weirder by the moment. So here's what happened - more text drama.
M: Are u on ur way? (he ran 45 min later than usual)
H: Yes. Running behind another appt. I'll be there around 7:30p
M: Ok. I also need in writing that our boys will not be spending the night tonight or this weekend with you & OW.
H: I'm not writing anything period!
M: Then the boys will not go with you til you can confirm this.
H: Okay, I have not decided if I am staying at my parent's house this wknd. My atty did confirm that they could spend the night with me at my parents house.
M: The boys don't want to spend the night there either. And per my atty they can choose not to. Again, I am not denying your visit. They just don't want to spend the night.
H: That's fine VGE. I'm not forcing the boys. Eventually, when this D is over they will be spending the night on my visitation days. I will be marrying OW and the boys will be staying with us.
I responded 30 minutes later since he still hadn't picked them up.I just asked if he was on his way and he said yes. so he picked up the boys around 8p and dropped them off around 11p. Never called or text to let me know nor did I text him since I figured he picked them up late anyway.
When H mentioned that he was going to spend the night with our boys at his parent's house, I was ok with it but my DS16 wasnt. He was so upset because its going to my inlaws hm where my sons know where they stand and they are terribly hurt. The boys did tell him in person that they didn't want to spend the night but didn't give him great detail.
Anyway, so now the D is getting uglier by the minute. I truly believe with my heart that my H wants everything - children, home, stuff, money without me attached. I think he wants me to die. This hurts beyond belief.
