Hi all, I still look at the boards but don't post as much anymore , so last weekend was my wife's birthday , i didn't call or text and it has been since early July since she texted me anything(text was about divorce papers).
I've been detaching , GAL, counseling , excercising , hanging out with friends but feel so empty and alone still , more good days than bad but can't believe she's moved on so quick to not even talk to me or want to know how I'm doing , 7 years and she's leaving me for regular marriage ups and downs
Just because YOU think they are regular ups and downs doesn't mean she does. Her perception of your relationship is her REALITY of your relationship. Just because you think its "normal" or "average" doesn't make it so.
Also, don't assume that just because she isn't contacting you that she has moved on. Patience is critical. But at the same time, you don't want to sit around waiting and hoping for her to change her mind.
