XW wants lunch with me and...........OM

[Cristy]

Ug.....

Hello everyone. My last thread can be found here:

Really Random Ramblings

It seems like every time I am almost ready to say goodbye to this board, something comes up. Here we go:

Yesterday, S29 comes over and tells me that he is going to be getting married in April or May.

I've always known that my boys will all be getting married someday and I'd be attending their weddings with XW and OM in attendance. I've accepted that and am ok with that but.....

He then informs me that he is probably going to have the ceremony and XW's house!!!! Apparently. XW is ok with it. Matter of fact, she wants to have a couple of lunches before that with me and OM to "clear the air."

Please tell me that it is ok for me to not want to participate. I don't want lunch with her or the douchebag OM and I surely don't want to go to her house.

I don't know what surprises me the most, the fact that S29 thought it would be ok or the fact that XW wants me at her house. Hell, at one point I wasn't even allowed to have her address.

WHAT THE BLOODY HELL????

S29 also stated that when he told XW he was getting married, she just shrugged it off and started talking about herself again. He even said, "It's all about her."

No sh!t.

Anyways, I told him I would go to the wedding, but not at XW's house. So....I may not be going to my own son's wedding unless it is at a different venue.

Am I wrong?

Tad

Tad,

Hopefully it will be a long engagement so that your son and his bride will find another suitable option. After all, your son did say "It's all about her" Perhaps the gift of time will serve your son & his fiance well.

Did you see Michele's FB post today? It is "Before You Tie the Knot"

Check it out!
Cristy