Another fear I have regarding the LRT is that it may be more of the same. One of the problems in our relationship is that neither one of us communicated our needs very well. We would give little hints but not fully put it out there and then expect the other person to be able to read their mind. We didn't want to hurt each others feelings.
If I'm acting as if I'm moving on and GAL and not communicating how I am really feeling, isn't that just more of the same behaviour?