Thanks Sunny,
I'm not sure what would be authentic to me - I guess there is no good answer, no good way. I have a little time to figure this out.

I do feel like I am in control of this - I imagine she is going to play like she is the victim in this - but I cannot control that.

I was in contact with L and he responded that we can get this moving immediately - it hurts that this can be done just like that (snapping fingers). My heart sank again.

Thanks for your support!!


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015