Thanks Sunny, I'm not sure what would be authentic to me - I guess there is no good answer, no good way. I have a little time to figure this out.
I do feel like I am in control of this - I imagine she is going to play like she is the victim in this - but I cannot control that.
I was in contact with L and he responded that we can get this moving immediately - it hurts that this can be done just like that (snapping fingers). My heart sank again.
Thanks for your support!!
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015