Just change that which you do with D and don't wallow in the rest it is WW noise it seems. I would not text, just change things for your D and yourself.
One handover blunder isn't fatal considering WW tears previously. If she is irrational again and you have changed the interaction then " WW I can see why you think XXXX, but I don't agree lets agree to disagree on this"
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW