H has acknowledged he was not meeting all of my emotional needs and wants to correct that. In letter H says he wants to know what I need from him & how he can repair what has happened so that we can move forward successfully.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced