It feels as if she is trying to normalize this broken relationship with me. I am not ready for that and may never be. She will say that she tries to "reach out" to me but that I don't respond and shoot her down. And that feels like manipulation.
Bottom line - what am I doing? I was trying to save my marriage/family but the lines are so blurred now.
1). Divorce - play nice for sake of kids and be her friend.
2). Divorce - only talk about kids logistics and be friendly
3). Keep trying to find the balance and try to be the better option.
