Hey bobby, just keep working on yourself and maybe she'll see that your actions have changed. If she launches into her "why didn't you" spiel, just politely end it. You've been down that path with her before and it doesn't seem to help anything so try something different and end the convo before it gets started.

What are some things that you were doing when things were good between you two? What qualities in yourself made her fall for you in the first place?

Just a few things to think abkut as you work on the new and improved bobby 2.0.