I have absolutely no advice to offer as you are getting GREAT advice from some of the best vets on the page. But, I just wanted to pop in and offer support. I continue to send positive thoughts your way.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
The line between saint and chump is a very thin one indeed, Train. "Entitlement" is not strong enough word. I don't know what keeps me hanging on. How is this possibly going to get better?
The living situation is all a matter of money at this point. Getting some bills cleaned up right now. Not as fast as I'd like.
I do need to change the tone in therapy. It's been the W show for far too long in there.
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Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
I do need to change the tone in therapy. It's been the W show for far too long in there.
If she pulls it in a joint therapy session, I'd just stand up, make a little speech, and leave. "You know what? This isn't working for me anymore. I must be nuts to spend my time and money -- both of which are precious to me at this point -- to sit here and be treated so disrespectfully. (Looking at wife) And your sense of entitlement and complete lack of introspection is no longer my concern. I'll let you guys work on whatever you want to, but I'm going to go."
