Separated...and working on it

[Dawn70]

I found getting rid of stuff was a very cathartic process in the days and months following my divorce being final. I moved to a smaller home, which forced me to have to purge, so to speak. But, I purged things that HE picked and for some reason chose not to take. I really slashed stuff down and it felt good every time I loaded the back of my SUV up and hauled stuff to the local thrift store. It was a really good feeling.

I agree with your above analogy that you MUST take care of you. And by all means, buy those kick ass heels!!!!!!