I think your not feeling "in love" is a perfectly normal place to be in at this time.
I think that when we finally get what we work so hard for (our S back) we are able to relax to a certain extent and re-examine what we've been put through.
Our energy can now be focused on US and what WE really feel and want for ourselves.
I think this is a good phase for us to be in. Our hearts are off our sleeves, our 'neediness' is gone, we have our self esteem pasted back together and we've come to realize in retrospect that we were so busy worrying about them that we didn't stop to ask ourselves what about ME?
I think that your feelings for you H may grow and intensify as you settle in with your new perception of who you are. The beautiful thing about successful reconciliation is that it actually gives us the breathing room to decide if this is what WE really want.
It's our turn now to choose our own path, not have one dictated to us by our previously walked-away S.
It's all going to be fine, you'll work it out to your best interest. T2
