It sounds like you need to pull back a little bit. There is no need to be having these conversations with her. She see's that she has you anytime she wants you. She is flat out lying to you right now. My wife did the same thing. He is not my boyfriend bla bla bla. Then what the heck do you call the guy you are talking about having sex with. I found out the hard way that these discussion do no good. It doesn't matter what you call him, he is the OM and he is a problem.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."