I have not talked to s, only h. H knows that s would tell me so he can't get away with lying about this, plus s would not lie for him, he really does not like what his d has done to me and his family and he absolutely hates her, so I would be very surprised if s has agreed to move in with her.
For H to go against my wishes and move s in with him and her would be a bold step on his part - I feel he is showing s18 that he is his priority, that ow and her family are not. Building bridges.
For h to lie now - yeah possible - but to lie over this, when he can be obviously caught out, I would be surprised.
