It isn't over. Just a bump in the road. There are plenty of people on these boards whose spouse has filed and continue to DB. Some of them even are showing improvement.
Also D is just a piece of paper....It isn't over.
Of course it hurts and makes it difficult, keep doing what you are doing and don't give up.
T14 M5 SD15,D8,S6,D3 "Not Happy" 12/11/14 EA discovered 2/11/15 MC started 2/17/15 MC "put on hold" 4/3/15 W IC started 4/5/15 PA admitted 5/7/15 WW moves out 5/8/15 WW gets her own place 7/15/15