LBS trying to get it right

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Just make sure you're taking off the ring because that's what you want. Not to get a reaction from W or prove anything to anyone.

Detaching is a long difficult process and something that won't happen overnight. GAL and finding what you love to do, being happy, these are ways you detach over time. Respecting your W's decision to leave you and showing her and yourself you can live without her if needed.

We tell you the M is over and this is the truth. At this point in she wants to be single. However, don't confuse letting go for giving up. You let go of what happens with her and accept she may never come back. She might, things change. You can always keep hope the two of you will end up together and have a chance to rebuild a new M. Nothing wrong with that,it's what I still pray for daily. It's what I ultimately want. I'm just not in denial that this may not happen,but I will be ok either way. Just like you will. Time will heal the wounds, you just have to take it day by day.