Take a deep breath, BEC. Things are only over when you decide they are, her filing doesn't have to be the end. Don't let this shake you and backslide, continue to DB and work on yourself. You will likely need legal help very soon so don't make any quick changes without it. Don't let her scare you into giving up anything you don't want also, you have rights also.
You are going to be ok, keep trusting this process. While my W hasn't filed yet the paperwork is sitting in the kitchen and in various places for months now. When she first told me she wanted a D in Jan I was a wreck. I still have the pain inside but I am fully capable now of moving on with my life with or without her. Keep making yourself the man only a fool would leave and you will be great no matter what.
Last edited by Fogg; 07/28/1506:59 AM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
