I think the most bothersome part is he doesn't acknowledge the kids. Our daughter is a big daddy's girl. This is breaking her. His mom had the nerve to say the reason he isn't seeing her is because he wants her to get use to this. She's influencing him so bad right now. When he was a child, she would never come home after work, would go to her apartment with her new boyfriend, left her kids with people for months at a time. He has talked about how painful that was and how he would cry because she wouldn't come home. I think that has a lot to do with how he is now. After he left me, he told her he knows he is suppose to leave and cleave, she said I don't know where you heard that BS from but I am the one that brought you in this world. I feel like nothing will ever get resolved and this marriage ever work because of her. She has him where she wants him. He is there to help her in any way she needs. They are moving into an apartment together this weekend. I guess I feel bitter. Bitter that he can do for her but can't do for his children. He makes her the priority instead of his daughter. I just want him to wake up from this. I pray every night and I feel so defeated.
