Way to go! You gotta wade through the weeds to get to the flowers...so I hear anyway. What I've learned is that if you're a guy who sends a nice message and don't ask for sex in the first message you're ahead of 90% of the other guys lol!Geez, today the 41 year old Filipina who gave me her phone number 2 months ago...and never responded to any message, messages me today "hey Whatis, haven't heard from you for awhile. I just tried to call your mobile no. but got missed call" WTH? You dicked me twice...no more lol. Anyway, the lady I had coffee with last night messaged me tonight "It's nice of you inviting me to your Flickr page. Nice work! Thank you for trying with me. I think I won't waste your time. I wish you will find the one you are truly looking for." I responded "You weren't a waste of time I wish you the best in finding someone special because a lady (and person ) like you deserves that. Bye for now..." So that's that.