Right Heavy, see? The "live with my mom" thing, not so good for R. I just feel like it would be a good place for me to heal spiritually. Not forever. But possibly for now. My self-esteem is kind of shot at the moment regardless. The biggest thing holding me back from doing that is exactly your point #2: what would WW think? (But who cares what my dippy wife thinks. lol Good point!)

Not at all thinking about future dating prospects, either. If I were to ever date again, it wouldn't be for a few years, long after I am not at my mom's place recovering from this divorce. Then again, maybe it's too early for me to say this, but I think I'm done with relationships after this. If my soulmate and the love of my life could do this to me? I think being single doesn't sound so bad at all. And really... I'm okay with that. For now.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19