Even a text from my H gets me rattled so I understand my friend. Unfortunately these interactions are usually not as meaningful to them as they are to us. i so wish it were different but sweetie the odds are just not in your favor.

I am sorry. i know it is like grieving all over again. Only time will tell if there is a genuine change. Stay strong and focused. You are worth it.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou