Hey, E think you did some good with your convo With showing appreciation and showing interest in what H is doing. These are both very important. So whole you didba lot of the talking, there was still a two-way discussion...that isn't easy to do with a h always, even in the best of times
Zephyr, thank you so much for those words of encouragement. I just have been viewing it negatively, and I DID do some things right. When I apologized for letting myself go, he gave me this strange look and said it wasn't anything to apologize for, but I could see it made him think. It made me feel better, which is the purpose of this anyways. I didn't do it for him per se as much as for me to recognize my areas of weakness.
Thanks again!
*hugs* E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out