Who are you and where's your thread? Do you have your own thread somewhere in here?
I've been lurking for a while but finally decided to register and offer my help. I've decided not to post the sorry details of my life right now.
Ummm...apparently you are experiencing some M problems, and you don't want to seek help from some wise vets. M'kay....
Just weird to offer help to others when you are a newbie who's not sharing his experience/story and we cannot tell if you are DBing correctly or not because you are not sharing your story here.
That's fine. Your choice.
Be careful in the forums...because I am not too confident that you have DBing concept down correctly or applying them correctly. Heck, I don't know if you even read the DR book from front to back...then rinse and repeat.