Thanks Job. And I agree to all of the above.I think because of out last history with this does make it more complicated. Although it is seemingly different than before, it seems more permanent this time. Although he does seem to want to have some sort of relationship with me. Not physical or even emotional just a friendship type in his own way. And yes it is always one sided. He texted me today after not hearing from him for a few days and I can tell he wants to get along and be friendly. That's always what happens after we have an argument or disagreement. So we agreed to try to get along again... It's a vicious cycle and nothing ever comes of it. So I've decided to just disconnect from him as much as I can not answer his text and he can go through the kids to plan things. I can't wait around any longer to see what happens. I'm going to keep working and taking care of my kids and living my life without him. Then if something happens someday I'll take it from there. I will wait to contact his attorney next week and see if he really met with her. He doesn't not expect me to do anything to move the divorce forward. He thinks that I don't want to divorce and I won't do it myself. He's in for a shock!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
