I have been at this a whole year this week, things have gone from good to bad very slowly yet fast, its been a whole year since BD...
Within that year, I have done many things I would not think possible!
So far no word or text from WW, oh well, life goes on =)
Like you I found this forum about a year after BD ... 9 months after W left. So I started learning, more importantly changing, these changes were small and subtle at first but over time. By the time I came here W was totally in love with OM and ready to start her new life once she got rid of that pesky H she never loved. Small changes would happen, I can say that after I DB'd effectively (not 100% but ... mayb 70-80%) I seen her 'on the ropes' and confused off and on. The A ran its course .. still took some time but she finally decided the changes in me were worth the risk for her to drop the D. Still was 4 months after that till I seen her actually trying to change and in a way she is currently DBing me.
Do not put timelines on things ... do the work .. not for her. For you.
