Job-when H said this is not MLC, I did not say a word. I know he can't see it. But, next time I will validate and walk away.
Thanks for all the great info on stages/masks.
One thing that has been interesting is my MLCer has talked a bit about "pieces" of himself falling off and him having to put himself back together. He has mentioned that a piece which broke off detached from me.
He knows I know he is off. I have at times mentioned his confusion and he has not denied it.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
