I want to wear my ring but I am not sure if it is just to remind me what I have lost will it give her the message that I have given up on our marriage and I am moving on if I remove it
Have you read the link on what detachment really means?
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As you may know we are living in the same house when it comes to going out and doing things obviously I have to think of my four children and being there for them....this was one of the things my wife said was the cause of her deciding to S was me not spending enough time with them so I have changed my working hours so I am arround at breakfast time so that I am always there
How does she act with you always being there? Has she said anything about it, other than asking for more space?
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How many days should I look to GAL each week do I suggest 3 days each or just see how it lays.. currently we have suggested she does a Saturday I do a Sunday evening
Suggest to whom, your W? Don't spend all your GAL with kids. To me, that's not GAL, that's just being a parent.
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The other was me.not spending enough time with her making Her feel loved and cherished so I know I cannot do anything about W
Has she actually said she wants you to spend more time with her NOW? Has she told you she wants you to do things to cause her to feel more love & cherished NOW? When she complained about this, was it not in regards to the past, before she wanted to separate?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
