You will see quite a few personalities, or as we tend to say "masks". Until your h figures himself out and faces his demons, he's going to try on different masks (personalities). They don't grow up to another age and then go back, it's all a mix and when he's fully baked, the finished product is the one that you will see when he exits MLC. Now, which personality will he be? No one knows...but we all hope that they will have actually grown up, become more settled and be the person that you once loved.
I will caution you though, some who come out the other side are not the same. Some will remain the same and others will retain some of their habits that they picked up along the way. Right now, this is not a cause for concern because your h is still baking in the MLC oven.
Oh, for goodness sake, your withdrawal had nothing to do w/him snapping. He was going to snap if you are been stuck on him and on his case every day. They all find excuses for what they are doing. Some blame spouses for purchasing bagged salad, others because they didn't launder the clothes properly, messy housekeepers, the dust bunnies are running wild and yes, even if the sun doesn't shine. So, believe none of what he says and whatever you do, do not tell him things about MLC. He will deny it and turn it around on you.
Just say to him "I'm sorry you feel that way" and walk away. Don't try to rationalize w/him.
Keep the focus on you, live your life for you and whatever you do...keep moving forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
