I have a question, can anyone help answer it: do MLCers toggle through different "ages" randomly? H is clearly in upper 20's now. He has even indicated that's where he wants to be. Does this mean he went through his childhood, teenage years and now he'll go back again to try to resolve more issues from those ages? Any knowledge here?
H did say to me that none of this would have happened if not for my withdrawal. He says he snapped because of me.
My reality is so strange. I know we all feel it to be so. It is "progress" that H and I are talking and yet when I think about the content of the conversations I am flabbergasted by it all.
I stand back and I feel I am trying to outlast this MLC clock. He will wreak havoc; I wonder how much?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
